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The good thing is you can find closure in some of the most common reasons why a gift has been returned below.

While each situation is unique the factors causing a person to return a gift usually are not.

The person returning your gift might be trying to send you a message or they might actually be acting in your better interest.

First, how should you handle the situation when it first happens? Etiquette tomes all say the same thing, there is only one thing to do when someone says no thank you and that's to accept its return without confrontation or making any sort of a grand ballyhoo.

Your emotions may rise and you might even be slightly shocked or put off.

For more on healthy boundaries, including gifts, watch online this video by one of my favorite You Tuber's holistic psychotherapist Victoria Lorient-Faibish.Affirmation: “My gift recipients have the freedom to do whatever they want with my gifts (my attention, help, etc.)—since it is now theirs.” It is OK for them to reject the gifts and you can still feel good because you gave in the spirit of true unconditional, non-demanding love.Especially if we're talking about an established relationship of many years.